Grey's Anatomy Sneak Peek Season 4 Premiere

I'm so excited!

If a man wants you....

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve

then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself

a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,

Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has

more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about

baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists

of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your

always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another

RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate

them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

My conclusion...

I have just come to a conclusion about the whole relationship deal.
Don't EVER let some1 in completely...i just realized that the more you treat other person like crap and then let him run behind you, THEN you have a chance of it working!
Now,I'm not saying this out of spite!It really is true!
The first guy i was serious about...when we were together...i was taken for granted...and the minute i walked away...he turns all obsessed..
The current reason for my depression...the girl he's with(yes..WITH!)treats him like crap...trust me...no human should be treated the way she treats him....but when he's with her and she pouts...t rest of t world seizes to exist!
Look around you...at the majority of relationships and tell me if this is not true. I see women who treat men soo badly..and it works vice versa too...but for some off reason..it makes their partner want them more!!..
For me,its all about give and take. And if this is how the game works...i don't wanna play.

Learning from your mistakes...

But if you never thought it was a mistake, how can you learn?
How can you move away from something you knew was right, you knew that your decisions were within all possible logic. That they were not rash decisions or a whim.
But with the events that occurred and occasions where you KNOW that letting go is the best solution....the need to let go yet not being able to...how do you overcome that?
There are moments where my reasoning are at two extreme ends...and its soo confusing!
Sometimes you believe that you are the worlds strongest person emotionally. But i surprise myself.
I'm just as human as everyone else. And i truly wish i was super human at this very moment.
My life crumbles...and i know i can change that....but its a battle...

Personal DNA

personalDNA

This site basically assesses your personality. The quiz is a little long but is apparently prepared by a group of professional psychologists.
I do know that there are quite a few of you guys out there who like stuff like this. You do not need to sign up or sign in to take the test.

My personal DNA states that I'm an animated leader:)

My personalDNA Report

Makes me wanna dance!

I came across this song on youtube.com
I LOVE it!

I soooo wanna dance!

Free Blog Templates

For the longest time, i have been searching for really cool blog templates.
I came across this site that has such a wide range of templates. And they are all sooo easy to use.
Check it out..
http://www.pyzam.com/bloggertemplates/

Somethin to reflect on...

Sometimes we have to see for ourselves.
We have to make our own mistakes.
We have to learn our own lessons.
We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore.
Until we finally understand for ourselves.
That knowing is better than wondering,
that waking is better than sleeping,
and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.

Its Britney...b@#$h

Well, thats how she starts here new single..Gimme more!

Think i would listen to this durin a workout or dance to it after a few drinks:o)...not too sure if its somethin i would listen to when im sober!..hehe...kidding...its not THAT bad....very Britney...

Wish the girl would get a grip of her life....perfect example of too much of a good thing isn't always good!

http://www.zshare.net/audio/3397013375ff3d/

What do you guys think?